The “Soul-Crushing Loneliness” of Solitary Confinement

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by | November 20, 2025

In our overly busy, hyper-connected, screen-centric world, the idea of “alone time” holds a powerful appeal. Solitude and silence are seen as things that create space for relaxation and self-awareness—things to be sought out and savored.

But in the years since I co-founded Solitary Watch, I’ve learned about another kind of “alone” that, when I even try to imagine it, shakes me to the core. It’s a state of being that tens of thousands of Americans experience every day—not by choice, but by force. It may last a few weeks, several years, or a lifetime. And there is nothing else like it. Because when you’re in solitary confinement, you are, really and truly, alone.

One person who wrote to us from his cell described life in solitary confinement as “a soul-crushing loneliness that never ends.” Another called it “a destroyer of humanity.” Solitary is a level of isolation so unnatural to human beings that in just a few weeks, it begins to change the structure and chemistry of the brain—and so painful that, as suicide rates in solitary confinement show, some people would rather die than continue to endure it.

Virtually everyone who has experienced solitary knows that being deprived of human contact is a form of torture, even if the scars it leaves are invisible to the eye. This fact means that the more than 100,000 people currently in solitary in prisons and jails are victims of the largest incidence of mass torture in the United States today.

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The idea of solitary as torture—a concept absent from the public mind just a decade ago—has been steadily gaining ground. This change in consciousness has been propelled by evidence-based information, investigative journalism, and firsthand accounts of life in solitary—all of which were pioneered, in large part, by Solitary Watch.

Yet, despite some meaningful reforms, solitary is still widely used in the majority of our prisons and jails—and under Trump, its use in immigration detention facilities has exploded.

I believe this unchecked power and abuse continues for two reasons: First, it takes place largely in the darkest corners of our carceral system, out of view of the public and the press. Second, it happens to people whose humanity has been devalued by an increasingly cruel and merciless society.

These are exactly the issues that our work confronts head-on, with its hard-hitting exposés and powerful first-person narratives, which are aimed at changing hearts and minds—and with them, policies, laws, and lives.

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An advocate once told me that he believes the day will come when the bulk of Americans will look back at solitary confinement the way they do slavery, and other abominations that were once legal and widespread in this country. When that happens, he said, they will ask: “How could we ever have done that to human beings?”

I also believe that day will come. But for the tens of thousands of people currently enduring lonely torture in their prison cells, it can’t come soon enough.

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With gratitude,

Jean

Jean Casella, Director & Co-Founder

Jean Casella

Jean Casella is the director and co-founder of Solitary Watch. She has also published work in The Guardian, The Nation, and Mother Jones, and is co-editor of the book Hell Is a Very Small Place: Voices from Solitary Confinement. She has received a Soros Justice Media Fellowship and an Alicia Patterson Fellowship. She tweets @solitarywatch.

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1 comment

  • Kate Potter

    As one who chose to live alone for most of my adult life, I crave and relish solitude. As a long-time nursing home patient, I long for it. yet even I can empathize and even imagine how this cruel form of punishment might torture a soul, especially one who suffers some form of mental illness or distress. Being on Medicaid renders me virtually penniless & unable to donate to causes I believe in, or I would gladly support the work of Solitary Watch.

    Sincerely & kindly yours~
    Kate Potter, crippled old poet in a pathetic nursing home

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